Active Imagination

Here in the Barnes household we like to encourage the use of imagination. We limit TV drastically (there are times when we indulge) and try to read and play as a way to pass the time. Also, cooking/baking is a favorite way to spend time together. So, on the occasion when we see our children's imagination at work we are typically pleased. However, on a recent trip to Publix when Miss Holland was playing pretend, I was not particularly tickled. Her calling out in a public place "where is my mommy?" while I'm standing right next to her and engaging in conversation (with a complete upbeat attitude for sure) is NOT the kind of pretend we want to encourage. Then, with my thinking a bit late, I gently take her chin and explain to her that's not an ok way to use your imagination. It was only a few seconds later when I turned to look around to make sure no one heard her and to make sure no one really thought I was trying to take her. Good thing I didn't have any hair dye in the shopping cart!